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Great, more questions!

Here are more answers to the questions that have likely ran through your mind. And don’t forget to check out the first post, if you’ve missed it!

Question 4: Is is safe to travel on your own?

Sure it is. I find that traveling solo, particularly being a woman, makes you even more alert and attentive of your surroundings. You generally don’t take the same risks you would when traveling with others. Wouldn’t you be more willing to drink until you pass out when you’re out with friends? Would you really do that if you were by yourself? (If yes, please get yourself some help, because you need it).

But really, think about it and you’ll realize that if you are with someone else, you feel more secure. Maybe that back alley shortcut doesn’t seem so scary when you’re with someone else. Or how can you find the time to look back when you’re walking if you’re listening to your buddy’s funny story?

Also, I tend to opt for accommodations in safer areas along public streets, even if it means paying a little more. I once stayed at a cheap hotel in San Francisco in a dodgy area, and was nervous to go outside by myself at night! Not worth it. When enjoying the nightlife of a city, I impose a two drink limit to make sure I am still able to lookout for myself at the end of the night.

As delicious as this may be, remember: only 2!

Question 5: Don’t you get lonely?

Yes, but I tend to fight loneliness by sending out postcards to my friends and family at home. Sending postcards gives you something to do when you’re sitting alone at a restaurant. Taking the time to write a postcard to a loved one almost lets you spend an intimate moment with them, even if it is only in your thoughts. It’s much more personal than worrying about how much time you have left at your computer in an internet cafe.

Another thing that helps is to book the occasional organized day tour. Even if it isn’t your travel style, it breaks up the monotony of walking around by yourself every day.

Making your way around a loop on a sad elephant may not be how you like to travel, but does help when you run out of stories to tell yourself.

Question 6: Is it easy to meet people?

It’s almost impossible not to. And realistically, I bet there are times where you will wish you were on your own. Ever been stuck next to a guy in an airport who is on a long journey of self-discovery, and wants to share every experience with you before a red-eye flight?

OK, I’m being negative. I have had the opportunity to exchange stories with some amazing people, just by sitting alone at a cafe. And sometimes you meet the right people on the road, and lasting friendships are formed. I don’t believe that you open yourself up to meeting new people as much when you travel with someone you know. Anything from sharing a taxi, a meal or even accommodations with people you meet along the way is a great benefit to traveling on your own.

Have any other questions? Send them my way! I’ll be happy to post a few more Q&A posts.

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